Q: My fiancé and I have been trying to figure out where we want to get married. We were thinking about having a destination wedding because all the ones I’ve been to are awesome. And I’ve heard it’s cheaper. But, as I started doing some research, I’m not sure it is. So, is having a destination wedding cheaper in actuality?
This is such a great question. And a question I get asked all the time. It is a common belief that having a destination wedding will save you money. And it certainly can. But, it’s not a completely true statement.
So, here’s the truth, having a destination wedding isn’t always cheaper.
It can be, but it can also be much more expensive than a hometown wedding. What makes a destination wedding cheaper or more expensive typically comes down to 3 factors.
3 Factors that will affect whether a hometown or destination wedding is cheaper
#1 – The destination itself. The destination location you choose for your wedding plays a huge factor in your budget. If you’re looking at a location where the exchange rate works in your favor like Mexico, your money can go further. And having a destination wedding can be cheaper. But, if it doesn’t, then you’ll be paying more. For example having a destination wedding in London can be more expensive.
Another piece related to your destination that you don’t want to forget are the travel costs. The farther or more expensive the destination location, the more you’ll spend. And the more expensive your destination wedding will be. For example, Iceland is an expensive location to travel to. While there are flight deals, once you’re there everything is expensive.
The last piece regarding your destination location is in comparison to your hometown. If you live in an expensive location, having a destination wedding could be cheaper. For example, if you live in Manhattan, doing a destination wedding almost anywhere else could be cheaper.
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#2 – The guest count. As with any wedding budget, the biggest factor is always the guest count. And it’s no different with destination weddings. If your destination wedding has a smaller guest count than your hometown wedding would, then you can most likely save some money. 50 people vs. 150 is a big difference.
But, if the guest counts for the two weddings are similar, usually a hometown wedding is cheaper. In which case doing a destination wedding would likely not save you money.
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#3 – The decisions you make. Lastly, like your guest count, the decisions you make will play a big factor in your wedding budget. The special band you want or the super lush floral centerpiece will make your wedding more expensive. And those things can require travel or be potentially more expensive in a destination location especially if you’re somewhere more remote.
This isn’t to say that you shouldn’t create the wedding you want. It’s just another factor to consider when you’re trying to figure out if a hometown or destination wedding is better for you.
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The location, your guest count and the decisions you make will play a major role in whether a destination wedding will be cheaper or more expensive than a hometown wedding. Make sure you weigh each as you’re planning your wedding so you can make the right choice for the two of you.
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